anti-capitalist sex
Oppresive systems go hand in hand with each other (patriarchy, white supremacy, capitalism). It is creating of the capital and availability to being exploited that are the reasons for monogamous "traditional" families supremacy. To control and rule over something organised and labeled - such as mononormative family type - seems easier than to try the same with an unconventional and unpredictable way of human bonding. Anti-capitalist sex is free from any mononorms. It leads to nothing other than pleasure itself and slips away from being labeled - resulting in it being not for sale. There is no specific way to describe anti-capitalist sex, because the only limit to quantity, quality and overall form is imagination.
sex
Any consensual sexual act shared between people. What we perceive as sexy/sexual is our free choice.
mononormativity
Assuming that monogamy is the norm and any other relationship structures are alienated.
relationship escalator
Mononormative way of a relationship dynamic. An accurate and most common example of relationship escalator would be:
dating --> relationship --> moving in together --> marriage --> child
rhizoman
Transhuman rhizome, the essence of human being put into a rhizomatic shape.
de-shame
To de-shame is to let myself put all my insides outside. It is to tell apart my actions that occur due to shame - from actions that are vulnerable and unprotected with shame's coat. Actions that are full of pride or joy.
It is also to become friends with my own shame, to just let it be - in the end shame wants to protect me, but sometimes it misinterprets the actual situation.
shameless
If we use that word towards someone, it is probably bacause we are ashamed, not because someone is shameless. Shame is always there - we can only choose whether we want to hide it or to learn from it.
fluid bonding
The exchange of bodily fluids during unprotected sexual acts.
Amelia Pelc-Gonera
SUNNY DAY
Sunny day and I’m walking down the street
You pass me by, whistling very softly
Too stunned to speak
I’m left with „what if”
What if you…
What if I…
Well…
Not tonight…
So the next day comes
Friday - I think it was Friday
I’m 40 minutes away from your sound
On the other side of the city
Smoking cigarettes with friends
Feeling pretty
And I hear the whistling
No way! - someone would’ve said
I look up - see you and think - no way!
That’s a sign
I say hi
You say hi
I tell you about the coincidence
And you act with pure confidence
- I’m leaving tomorrow, but let’s keep in touch
- Okay! What’s your name?
- Emilio
- Ohhh, you won’t believe that…
- What?
- I’m Amelia
So we keep in touch
Meet few months later
You sit at my table and read me a poem from a book I showed you a moment ago
My heart falls for that
We’re making love
Next day you say goodbye
Another year goes by
We write each other beautiful letters
I feel safe, cause no one ever treated me that way
You’re back to the city, so we meet again
With love in my heart I invite you once more
You drink
One
Two
Three glasses of wine
Maybe four
But it’s fine
We lay down on my bed
You go inside me and I’m starting to break
You’re down to play
But I’m not
Please, slow down
You don’t
My screams of pain
Covered with your screams of joy
I’m drowning in tears
You’re all in sweat
Not knowing what rape is
It’s hard to tell a threat
That night a subtle whistle of love
Turned to a whisper of death
Fuck you Emilio
FOUNTAIN
Performance - group of people standing in a rhizomatic network, spitting to one anothers' mouths. Fluid bonding. Human Fountain. Sexual act and dom/sub roleplay in which the roles are getting mixed.
I BELONG TO YOU, YOU BELONG TO ME
Two people standing in front of each other. Person A holds person B on a leash and person B is holding person A on a leash. They're both doms and subs at the same time.
